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Risky Hope and Generosity

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     Early this morning, in a thread I was reading, someone said "the depression literally killed people." It was said in response to the possibility of an impending economic crash and what we should do about it.
    That statement though, struck me as an odd one. The great depression didn't run around with a gun literally killing people. No one actually died directly from the depression at all.
    People did die, yes, but what they died of was due to two main things. The first despair, and the second a lack of their needs being met (food, shelter, clothing).
    I find it most disheartening when Christians are the ones responding with the type of rhetoric that losing money or crashing economic systems automatically means a death sentence, because collectively the narrative of the Bible, over and over again, offers solutions to both of these issues.
     We are supposed to be people of hope, people of the resurrection, who claim that even death has no dominion over us. Yet, we seem to falter at wavering economics. If our hope and trust come from our finances, we will be left wanting, even if there isn't a great depression.
      There still is job loss, there are still medical emergencies that leave us unable to work at times, there are still various tragedies that end up costing more money than we planned for or imagined. Putting our hope in finances is shaky ground. It is, quite honestly, building our foundation on shifting sand.
     There is an old hymn we sing regularly in our church that says "My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus blood and righteousness. I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus' name. On Christ the Solid Rock I stand, all other ground is sinking sand". It would be a scary place to be in right now if what we were really meaning was "My hope is built on nothing less than capitalist economics". But our hope isn't placed in the economy, our hope is (or at least should be) placed in Jesus.
     That might seem very pie in the sky when looking at job loss and the fear and anxiety that goes along with that, so what does that mean in the face of difficult times? It means that we look forward in hope despite our circumstances, but it also means that we share that hope with others. We pass the peace to a world living in anxiety. We are a non-anxious presence in anxious times. We love others well.
     My 2 year old son might understand that better than I do. When I start to look at the world with despair, he pulls me back in to look at the world instead with wonder. He asks me to sing one more song, or read one more book, or says "I love you." He declares with joy "look at the trees! Look at the birds! Look at these little rocks." It's amazing the small things that can give hope in the midst of difficult times.
     I've watched people give hope in these difficult days. Healthcare workers who are working around the clock despite their own exhaustion. School lunch ladies who put together kits of food to pass out to children in vulnerable places. Teachers creating zoom classrooms and spending hours putting together packets of materials. I've watched as friends have extended gifts to one another. I've watched as people have chosen to stay inside and play board games and read books versus put their neighbors at risk of a deadly virus. I've seen neighborhoods decorate their walk ways with chalk, and put displays in their windows to make the world a brighter place. I've had friends who are trained therapists and counselors offer their services virtually at no cost, to help people work through anxiety and fear with dignity. I've watched as my colleagues have spent hours calling congregants, creating meditation and devotion exercises, pray over people and with people, and stream sermons of hope to any who want to listen.
     All of this and more is hope giving work. It's life giving work. These are ways to dispel the darkness and bring about light to a people on the edge of despair. This is the work of resurrection that the church is called to and that the church can do.
      The second part, the meeting needs part, might feel more difficult or daunting, but it takes the same amount of creativity.
     I told my husband, "One of the interesting things about the depression to me, is that there were still rich people." Maybe more interesting is that we tend to tell their stories as the heroes of that time. The ones who pulled themselves up by their bootstraps. Yet, this is a very different narrative than the one we find in scripture.
     Story after story in the Bible tells us about the importance of generosity. The story of Lazarus and the Rich man, where the rich man got all his needs met on earth, and never shared with his poor neighbor Lazarus, and its the rich man that ends up in hell (he's definitely not the hero). The story in the old testament of King Eglon in the book of Judges, who was so obese the handle of a sword disappeared in his belly, which was a statement about someone with the ability to gorge himself while those around him starved to death, instead of being generous (among other things). The story of the rich young ruler who went away sad because Jesus told him to sell everything he has and give it to the poor. The system in the Old Testament law of gleaning, where part of crops must be left for the poor. The story of the widow of Zarapheth who had so little flour and oil that she was planning to make a last meal for herself and her child, before starving to death, but shared it with Elijah out of obedience to God and ended up having her needs met day after day after day. The system of Jubilee where debts are forgiven and land is restored, that while never being lived out the way it should, was still a directive from God. The church in Acts 2 that shared everything in common, and so everyone had their needs met. I could go on and on and on. Story after story after story.
      God cares deeply for the needs of people, because people are the beloved of God. The way that God meets those needs most often, is through the generosity of the people of God.
     We've been told a lie by our culture that tells us that what we have is ours. We worked hard for it, we deserve it. What God tells us is that everything is God's. Everything is a gift, and because everything is a gift, we are to generously share with those around us.
     When you have more than you need, you build longer tables. We are to be people of longer tables.
      It might seem that we don't have anything to share, but often that's because we fail to have an imagination. If we have a guest room, we can share it. If we have 2 coats, we can give one to someone who needs one. If we have a years worth of toilet paper, certainly we could spare some rolls for our neighbor without any. If we know how to bake bread, we can share that knowledge with others who need to know how in days when there is no bread on the shelves or no money to buy it. If we have a 20 lb bag of rice, we could certainly find a way to share it with others.
       We are going to need to be people with a kingdom imagination, to create ways we can share with others. There has been no shortage of imagination these days, with how we are learning to share digitally with one another. What if we could take that creative energy, and think of ways to share more deeply and more creatively with those around us who have needs? To share with those who are facing job losses or insecurity?
       Scarcity is a myth deeply woven into our society. It tells us we need to buy more, to protect what we have at all costs, and to build up stores for ourselves. But this is not the narrative of the people of God. Our narrative is to be one of risky hope and generosity. Where we give out of a deep trust that God cares for the sparrow and will care for us too. Where there is always enough, when we share the little bit we have with those around us.
      Let us be the people of God that we are called to be. Let us be people of risky hope and generosity.

The flowering of the cross

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     Each year, our church participates in a beautiful tradition, the flowering of the cross. It is a highlight of the Easter service. It is incredibly participatory for our intergenerational church, creates a beautiful (and tangible) illustration of life out of death, and makes for an amazing back drop for Easter photos. 
     I've had several people ask about the logistics of creating a flowering cross of their own, and also what a liturgy might look like. Because there has been such an interest, I have decided to write out both the logistics (with photos) of how to put one together, and a liturgy as well.
      Holy Week is BUSY for those of us in ministry, so the more we can share with one another (especially tips on how to make things more simple) the better. This is VERY simple to put together, but has a significant impact. 
      First, this is what our cross looks like for Good Friday. 
     
     This is obviously far from a flower cross. Last year we gradually blew out candles throughout the service, and it made such a visual impact that we will probably do that again. If anyone is interested in our Good Friday liturgy, I'm more than happy to share that in another post, just comment that you'd like to see it. 
     Our cross was built by a couple in our church, and I'm happy to get instructions for that as well. It's unfinished (I like the look of it that way), and it inserts into a base, which makes it much easier to move when we need to move it, and creates a great platform for vignettes like the one I created for Good Friday. 
     The cross is simply draped in a black cloth for the Good Friday service. 
     On Holy Saturday, I turn over the cross from Good Friday to Easter. It's a work Saturday for me, as I stop at the local florist (I highly recommend working with a local florist, to build relationships and support local businesses) to pick up our Easter lilies as well as getting extra flowers for the flowering of the cross, and reset the sanctuary. 
      If flowers are growing outdoors (which is very dependent on where you live, and where Easter falls) I encourage using those. We ask everyone in our congregation to bring flowers from their gardens or to pick up flowers from their favorite florist. Our cross ends up looking very different every year because of this. It's important that we have our congregants participate, because it's to symbolize that we are a resurrection community. That what started with Jesus continues with us, as we breathe life in the dead places of the world. 
     After taking the Good Friday decor down, I then wrap chicken wire around the cross. The chicken wire extends beyond the top and arms, but doesn't extend fully to the back (it doesn't need to). It extends just enough to look great from any angle someone would be sitting in. I encourage you to measure and cut your chicken wire ahead of time, so you aren't doing that while trying to reset on Holy Saturday. The cross looks like this when wrapped in chicken wire. (Notice the extra flowers from the florist. I tend to purchase a couple bunches of inexpensive, but beautiful flowers in various colors)
     

     The reason I like to use chicken wire is that it is nearly invisible when seated in the congregation. It also is very easy to weave flowers and greenery through, even for our youngest congregants. 
     Once the cross is wrapped in chicken wire, then I arrange the white cloth. This actually takes me longer than the chicken wire, because I get pretty particular about how I want it to look. 


     I always leave the extra flowers at the foot of the cross for Easter morning. The florist and I have a great relationship at this point, so they always let me take their large buckets with me, which come in handy. Having some greenery like Eucalyptus, or palm branches are also a nice inexpensive touch to the look of the cross. 
      On Easter Sunday, nearly everyone brings flowers in, many bringing extra for guests they know that are coming from out of town. Our cross gets more and more full each year. Another nice thing about the chicken wire is that it is easy to keep adding until the dross is very full. 
      We flower the cross at the end of our service following the Eucharist. It fits really well for us. I talk about remembering Christ's death, and that we too are called to die, but that the heart of our faith is resurrection. That we are to participate in resurrection life in the world as well. Sewing seeds for the kingdom of God, and breathing resurrection life into the world. 
      We play upbeat music about the resurrection, and it feels like a celebration. Since our services are intergenerational, everyone gets involved. The tall adults lift toddlers up on their shoulders to reach the very top. Board members make sure that visitors are all given flowers to contribute. It's a beautiful image of resurrection community. 


     This is what our cross looks like when it's finished! The colors change from year to year, and it seems to get more and more full each year. 




      I know there are some churches who use silk flowers that they reuse each year. I prefer real flowers for a few reasons 1) there is enough plastic pollution in our world without contributing more and real flowers are compostable 2) it feels weird talking about life with something that's not alive 3) it feels much more participatory when people are bringing in their favorite flowers.
      People linger around the flower cross for a while. Taking photos and celebrating before we take off for brunch. It makes for great photos with family, and everyone loves it.
(Easter 2019)

      This leaves the question, what do we do with the flowers when we are done? After brunch, we encourage people to make bouquets to take home. It's a good reminder for them throughout Easter week about being resurrection in other places. 
      I know it seems like a lot of work for such a short part of our service, but it really is that impactful and looked forward to so much, that I get joy doing the work for it each and every year. It's a highlight in my year, and I love all it represents in the life of our church. It really feels like a moment that reenergizes us for our mission in the world. 
     However, if you want to enjoy it longer, many people flower the cross during their Easter Vigil at midnight. It would also be a great thing to include in a sunrise service (we find that our sunrise service is best when we are doing interactive things. We actually do resurrection eggs, lots of songs, and an easter craft to take home). 
      This is an example of what I say to lead us into the liturgy of communion and the flowering of the cross response:
(this was following baptism) As a resurrection community there is another act we participate in, and that is the Eucharist. It reminds us of the great sacrifice of Jesus for us, and again a reminder that we are called to live differently. We are called to walk the path of the cross that we might ultimately know resurrection.
Because we are talking about participating in resurrection today, we will not only be receiving communion, but we will also be participating in the flowering of the cross. It is a way for us to be reminded that God transforms broken and dead things into whole and live things. So as a response to our time of communion this morning, we ask that you also come forward to weave your flowers, and the flowers here at the foot of the cross, onto the cross as a reminder that we are participating with Christ in the redeeming, restoring, and resurrecting work in the world.

      
(from our oldest son's baptism Easter 2018)

    This is a beautiful and meaningful time for our church, as it leads well to celebration and being sent into the world. It also makes for some great photos! 
     I would love to hear about your flower crosses and see photos if you end up adding this into your liturgy this year, so send your stories and photos to me! Happy preparations for the busy season ahead!